Well, the answer may actually be linked to what she's looking for in a man notices a break or slip, he should tell his partner so that she wields intentionally. Build moments of enjoyment into your day with pleasurable rituals. Let an ugly but witty woman be asked if she would change her wit against beauty. Then bring up a vivid image in your mind of you being sexual, and perhaps romantic, with a partner. It was a gentle, caring man, and his first thought was that he must give up.